January 2012
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Jan 25th
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what if?
“See what I’ve given you? Safe passage as you walk on snakes and scorpions, and protection from every assault of the Enemy. No one can put a hand on you … At that, Jesus rejoiced, exuberant in the Holy Spirit. “I thank You, Father, Master of heaven and earth, that you hid these things from the know-it-alls and showed them to these innocent newcomers.” (Luke 10:19,21) ...
Jan 24th
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Entertainment Vs. Art, by Lariv Athem →
“In the increasingly information-heavy times in which we live, distractions abound. The word distraction literally points back to a certain losing (dis) of control (traction). We start off with an intention to focus on something, but then a momentary lapse of clarity leads us astray.  The drifting isn’t just arbitrary – there is a subtle attraction, and our attention finds itself ...
Jan 24th
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Wait - what ?: A Poem For Sunday “Before You Know... →
dreaminginthedeepsouth: A Poem For Sunday “Before You Know What Kindness Really Is” by Naomi Shihab Nye: Before you know what kindness really is you must lose things, feel the future dissolve in a moment like salt in a weakened broth. What you held in your hand, what you counted and carefully saved, …
Jan 23rd
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an excessive love
“By this time a lot of men and women of doubtful reputation were hanging around Jesus, listening intently. The Pharisees and religious scholars were not pleased, not pleased at all. They growled, “He takes sinners and eats meals with them, treating them like old friends.” Their grumbling triggered this story. “Suppose one of you had a hundred sheep and lost one....
Jan 18th
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Andrew Hyde, the Man Who Owns Only 15 Things  →
“Other than the issue of really wanting a new color shirt sometimes, I really am not missing much, but experiencing a lot.” More at Andrew Hyde.
Jan 16th
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“And above all, watch with glittering eyes the whole world around you because the...”
– ― Roald Dahl (via justbesplendid)
Jan 15th
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“You, as an artist, have the greatest responsibility of all. You are charged...”
– I Wrote This For You: The State Of The Artist
Jan 12th
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a woman we love - zee avi →
An excerpt from my Esquire story on Zee Avi. Where I accidentally sneezed into a ciggie tray, and blew ash all over her. Did I mention she was sick and about to play in a show six hours later? Not my finest moment. Of course, it’s in the story. Other than that, really enjoyed our chat. The kind of girl who zigs when others zag. In other news, I got promoted. I’m now the associate...
Jan 12th
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“We are broken people, holding each other’s pieces, in the hope of a new...”
– Tim Goh
Jan 12th
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dreaminginthedeepsouth: It is very hard to live with silence.  The real silence is death and this is terrible.  To approach this silence, it is necessary to journey to the desert.  You do not go to the desert to find identity, but to lose it, to lose your personality, to be anonymous.  You make yourself void.  You become silence.  You become more silent than the silence around you.  And then...
Jan 8th
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Jan 6th
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“I hope that in this year to come, you make mistakes. Because if you are making...”
– Neil Gaiman (via anditslove)
Jan 4th
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Jan 4th
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Jan 3rd
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25 Things Writers Should Stop Doing →
“Let 2012 be the year of the risk. Nobody knows what’s going on in the publishing industry, but we can be damn sure that what’s going on with authors is that we’re finding new ways to be empowered in this New Media Future, Motherfuckers (hereby known as NMFMF). What that means is, it’s time to forget the old rules. Time to start questioning preconceived notions and established...
Jan 3rd
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“When you are able to create a lonely place in the middle of your actions and...”
– Henri Nouwen
Jan 2nd
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“I’ve always felt that the world into which we were born is nothing less...”
– Charmefou
Jan 1st
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2012: a year of courage
* I like to begin every year with a word/phrase that somehow rings in my heart, and sets the tone for the days and months ahead. In 2010, the phrase was “a year of gifts”. In 2011, it was “a year of remembrance”. These words serve as an anchor, and has become a practice I’ve really cherished every new year. “The two of them, the Man and his Wife, were naked,...
Jan 1st
December 2011
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the good things of 2011
I’ve been holding wrap-up, year-end sessions with close friends. And for some reason, we always end up asking each other about the good things of 2011. Maybe because I’ve walked through so many unfortunate, heart-breaking events this year with these dear friends, none of us need to revisit the details. Instead, this has proven to be a great exercise in thanksgiving. So, I thought...
Dec 29th
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Dec 29th
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Dec 28th
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Dec 28th
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“Love always stoops, and faith always jumps.”
– Dave Zimmerman
Dec 27th
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Dec 27th
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Anonymous asked: Who is your favourite cousin? :-)
Dec 26th
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Dec 26th
Dec 24th
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let the blind see
“Jesus heard that they had thrown him out, and went and found him. He asked him, “Do you believe in the Son of Man?” The man said, “Point him out to me, sir, so that I can believe in him.” So Jesus said, “You’re looking right at him. Don’t you recognise my voice?” “Master, I believe,” the man said, and worshipped him. Jesus then...
Dec 23rd
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Dec 22nd
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Love not help →
bobulate: A pair of French researchers propose that adding the text “loving” to a collection box almost doubled the amount of money raised: Some [collection] boxes had this additional text in French just below the money slot: “DONATING=LOVING”; others had the text “DONATING=HELPING”; whilst others had no further text below the slot. …. The text on the donation boxes made a profound difference....
Dec 22nd
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Dec 22nd
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“When you have come to the edge of all the light you have, and step into the...”
– Richard Bach (via julie911)
Dec 21st
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“The aim of life is to live, and to live means to be aware, joyously, drunkenly,...”
– Henry Miller
Dec 21st
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“Your task is not to seek for love, but merely to seek and find all the barriers...”
– Rumi, the Sufi poet
Dec 20th
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The Boyzilian: Esquire Malaysia →
I went for a Boyzilian some months back. This was the experience. Suffice to say, the first shall be the last.
Dec 20th
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“And you would accept the seasons of your heart just as you have always accepted...”
–  Kahlil Gibran (via justbesplendid)
Dec 20th
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Dec 19th
Anonymous asked: why do you call yourself sochews?
Dec 19th
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Dec 19th
Dec 18th
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my new website!
Finally! After a year of procrastinating, I’m finally building my own website. All thanks to my brother, who bought me the sochews.com domain for my birthday. It’s nothing very different. I’ll be posting devotions that normally go on theheartissoft here. I’ll be putting all my writing stuff for Esquire, FHM and other publications here. And I’ll put any other...
Dec 18th
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the love journey
“Mostly what God does is love you. Keep company with him and learn a life of love. Observe how Christ loved us. His love was not cautious but extravagant. He didn’t love in order to get something from us but to give everything of himself to us. Love like that.” (Ephesians 5:2) “Oh just love me and right now! Hold me tight! Just the way your promised.” (Psalm...
Dec 18th
November 2011
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Nov 20th
Nov 17th
October 2011
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The Kids Are Actually Sort of Alright →
“ok, you know what i always think about when i think of our generation? i read the david brooks book, “the social animal” and while it was only mediocre, he had this one really great bit that really stuck with me—the Greek ideal of “thumos”, which is the lust not for money or success (in the conventional sense) but the lust for glory. we want glory through our ideas-we want to know we...
Oct 16th
September 2011
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Sep 19th
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Sep 9th
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Favourite songs of 2011 - Part 1
Sep 5th
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Sep 5th
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